LoveShack.org Community Forums

Reload this Page LoveShack.org Community Forums > Breaking Up, Reconciliation & Coping > Coping

So I broke NC after 5 weeks.


Coping Learning to deal with one's emotions and loss.

Prev Previous Post   Next Post Next
Old 3rd March 2006, 2:43 PM   #1
UT_longhorn
Established Member
 
UT_longhorn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 397
So I broke NC after 5 weeks.

We broke up 2 months ago. NC for pretty much the 2 months, except one day 5 weeks ago.

She had blocked me on chat. I blocked her as well. I unblocked her yesterday for some odd reason, and there she was online, she had unblocked me.

We spoke. It was friendly. We cleared up some misunderstandings. We caught up on whats been going on in each of our lives. I told her Im pretty good. She kept asking if I was over everything. I said yes (even though I am not). I told her I am so busy these days. That I am excited about my new project in DC. Basically I guess I came off across as doing well. (Which is pretty much the case). She told me some of the things that she was doing, and I told her that Im very glad that she is doing so well and happy. We had some more conversation and kind of wrapped up saying if we see each other out next time, we dont have to act like awkward strangers.

The chat was good overall but a bit strained. Chatting with her is not something that I plan to do with her for a long time. I think I'm going to have to put her on block again. Although I was proud of how I handled the conversation...my emotions are now killing me again. Im not back at square one, but I do feel like a few huge steps backwards.

I guess I thought I could handle the friend thing after 2 months. but I am wrong. Im not ready. I really was doing very well until this.

Guys/girls - please think long and hard before you have any sort of contact. it really is like scratching at a healing wound. It will open right back up.
UT_longhorn is offline   Reply With Quote
 

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

 
Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Broke NC after 10 weeks...feeling horrible. fleta1028 Breaks and Breaking Up 3 18th May 2005 4:15 PM
BF and i Broke up - I was Devastated - 2 weeks later I'm over it? IhavenoFREAKINclue Breaks and Breaking Up 9 21st November 2004 8:16 PM
I broke it off 2 1/2 weeks ago, neither has contacted eachother, is it too soon jr15628 Breaks and Breaking Up 1 10th August 2004 2:34 AM
broke up for 2 weeks and got back together - she slept with another donny Cheating, Flirting, and Jealousy 4 1st October 2003 12:50 AM

 

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 4:48 PM.

Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number.


Copyright © 1997-2009 LoveShack.org. All Rights Reserved.