SIZE MATTERS. You don't have to be gargantuan, but there's a lower limit.
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The damaged and broken met along
This tedious path I've chosen here,
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My current boyfriend isn't the biggest i've been with, he is probably quite average in his size, but he is the best lover i've ever had so i dont think size matters as much as people say it does! Well, in my opinion anyway!
So a thought pops into my head... What is it then, that makes a good lover??
Emotional warmth between the two people involved. Paying attention to the partner's responses in order to learn what they like...rather than assuming that what the last bf/gf liked is the gold standard. A sense of fun and adventure. Mutual supportiveness.
Anyone who constantly belittles their lover, encourages him/her to feel unattractive and inadequate and seeks to undermine his or her confidence can, I think, expect to reap the negative results of that in the bedroom - sexual confidence being a pretty important aspect of what makes a person good in bed.
No, size doesn't matter, it's what a man does with it. My best lovers have been average and a little above average. Actually, I think sex is best when you have feelings for your partner, not necessarily the size of a man's package.
I think this is most probably the most vain and unimportant topics which I have seen frequent LS for a long time now and are deliberately designed to have a mild conversation where some have sexy answers and others talk about emotions and blah blah. Next Topic!
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No, size doesn't matter, it's what a man does with it. My best lovers have been average and a little above average. Actually, I think sex is best when you have feelings for your partner, not necessarily the size of a man's package.
I think your right.. it's not the size of the man... because when your in love with that special someone and you make sweet passionate love to him you dont care about size or wonder about it.. you think about the love you two share and how it feels to be able to physically bond with your lover... thats what matters... I use to think that a guy with a big **** was better than a guy with a little *** but its not true though. Size doesnt really matter... What matters is if the two of you are in love with one another... and if you are.. believe me when you guys embrace one another, it will be magical... trust me...my boyfriend isnt big but he was hittin it so GOOD we gotta son now and one on the way.
Life is GOOOOOD!
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