it has been 3 months i broke up with my gf. I was the one who messed up the things. She is a really nice girl friend and i can sense that she is sincere.
i had hurt her badly and she gave me another chance. But after sometimes, things didnt go smoothly, because i had lied to her and seemd she couldnt trust me as before.
So i said that i wanted a break up. She was quite calm but she said she is very sad. I told her not to see me ever after and i purposely been nasty to her so that she would nt have second thought abt it.
After that day i never heard anything from her. I miss her a lot. I felt guilty that she was so kind and nice to me. Until to day i am still thinking of her. But i never heard anything from her. i am wondering if she still has feeling for me .. does she still think of me ? does she has a new guy to replace me?
So i said that i wanted a break up. She was quite calm but she said she is very sad. I told her not to see me ever after and i purposely been nasty to her so that she would nt have second thought abt it.
I would say that is what did it !
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Dr. Drew ...... this is all perfectly normal, perfectly healthy
You screwed up. You got what you ask for, and now you feel regrets? She has no reason to have feelings for you or to ever consider taking you back. In my mind, she's lucky she got away. I don't mean to be harsh. Okay, yes I do.
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If you're sorry for your actions, apologize. Keep your expectations low because if I read correctly, you dumped her twice? What did you lie about? At any rate....send her an apology and learn from the error of your ways.
Send her an apology for being an ass but do not expect to get her back. She MAY come back but if she was my friend I would advise her not to if the guy had been horrible to her!
If you're sorry for your actions, apologize. Keep your expectations low because if I read correctly, you dumped her twice? What did you lie about? At any rate....send her an apology and learn from the error of your ways.
yes, i dumped her twice. 1st i said to her that i didnt love her anymore but after 3 days i begged her and she accepted me.
i lied that i was married. I told her that i was a single and just had a gf. the bad thing was she found it not from me. and she was shocked and shaken. She told me that she forgave me , accepted me . She told me that i should not lie to her again.
i want to call her but she can be quite difficult to handle at times. She is very independent girl . I am afraid she would reject me.
You lie to her, you play games, you are intentionally nasty to her?????? Are you intentionally abusive like this to make yourself feel more powerful? I'm surprised she had such class and composure when you did all those things to her and dumped her! If she's smart she's already moved on!
May I ask why you did all those things to her to begin with? That's mean and disrespectful - how can you ever expect love and trust in return?
I have been your ex gf's shoes (except for the married part) and it is a crappy place to be in. I am not surprised that she has not contacted you. It was made clear that you didn't want to have anything to do with her. Why would she want to lower herself to please you?
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I have a feeling this is non-other than GRACE2005 posting under a different name, if so please stop wasting our time asking for advice that you repeatedly ignore over and over again. We have told you, you need councelling, yet you've been making posts like this for months, bragging about how you want to punish your ex, and now it's bitten you in the ass.
I have a feeling this is non-other than GRACE2005 posting under a different name, if so please stop wasting our time asking for advice that you repeatedly ignore over and over again. We have told you, you need councelling, yet you've been making posts like this for months, bragging about how you want to punish your ex, and now it's bitten you in the ass.
You lie to her, you play games, you are intentionally nasty to her?????? Are you intentionally abusive like this to make yourself feel more powerful? I'm surprised she had such class and composure when you did all those things to her and dumped her! If she's smart she's already moved on!
May I ask why you did all those things to her to begin with? That's mean and disrespectful - how can you ever expect love and trust in return?
I didnt intend to play games. It just that she was too good to be true. She is smart ,pretty, good looking, nice personality and too be honest she also come from quite upscale background. She is very down to earth. I didnt even know that in the first time. But one thing i didnt like abt her that she is so much into church stuff. Which i dont. She is so good and on the other hand i had so many flaws. I was afraid if she would have leave me if she knew that my background. But she didnt leave me. I would not forget the day when she came to me and asked whether it is true that i am a divorcee. She was very quite , speechless but her tears dropping.
I felt terrible. I loved her a lot.
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