Should I be concerned that I found internet porn sites on my boyfriends computer, we live together and lately alot of family issues have come up and I'm haven't really been in the mood to be intamate with my boyfriend. I was not home the other night due to family illness and when i was looking for a file in his computer, i found internet porn videos and sites that he visited when I wasn 't home...I'm very upset is it me, or is this normal and should i confront him about it, I feel like I dont' satisfy my bf...Is there anything I should do??? I almost feel cheated on by a computer.......

[jerbear]

Since you thought about it and found it on his computer; bring it up the issue of porn one day/night when doing some pillow talk. Better yet, just talk to him oneday about it.

Keep in mind that if you let it go, forgive and forget.

[filarena]

This topic comes up frequently here. You may want to look through old posts, especially in the jealousy sub-forum, but my sense of it is that you'll find a consensus (not uncontested, but still a majority view) that men view internet porn. Not all man, but pretty damn near. It doesn't mean all the bad things girlfriends think it means. If it's really killing you and you just cannot accept it, then I don't mean to deny you your pain. But since you ask should you be concerned, my answer is no. A man can be perfectly satisfied with his relationship and still view porn. It isn't a reflection on you.