Which one (or multiples) of you broke NC on Vagina Day?!
Safe to say I didn't and I feel all the better for it. Every day I find myself thinking about her less and less and more about myself, my needs and what I want out of my life. What's important to me and what makes me happy.
Isn't it great to have the reins of your life back? For you to be in control and not hand over your feelings to someone else?
Now my dreams are filled with whatever projects I am working on and what makes me happy. And that's made for a lot of solid nights of sleep
__________________ ...the purpose of a doormat is to wipe your feet on it, not love and respect it. - Balthazar The No Contact Guide
I must confess..... but not about an ex... this is about you! I have a strong visual of you. close your eyes and imagine this (which is hard if you are trying to read this and close your eyes at the same time)
CaliGuy atop a great Mountain over looking a valley below bustling with people. Skyscrapers and trains running through it.
On this Mountain over looking society, he stands with his chest out, posed in a manner with his hands on his hips, one foot propped up on a large rock. He is dressed in black boots, skin hugging leotard, and a cape gently blowing in the wind behind him. A large NC on his chest which is heaving with each manly breath.
(start hummming a patriotic sounding number here)
He is NC MAN! Guardian of No Contact. He is the enemy of repeat heartache, defender of the dumped. HE IS THE LAST BARRIER TO STOP THE PAIN.
The world is grateful, indebted, and loves NC MAN! We salute this hero.
Delete that number from your cell, Do not Text, use caller ID, Block those phone calls....... NC is the right thing to do!
I must confess..... but not about an ex... this is about you! I have a strong visual of you. close your eyes and imagine this (which is hard if you are trying to read this and close your eyes at the same time)
CaliGuy atop a great Mountain over looking a valley below bustling with people. Skyscrapers and trains running through it.
On this Mountain over looking society, he stands with his chest out, posed in a manner with his hands on his hips, one foot propped up on a large rock. He is dressed in black boots, skin hugging leotard, and a cape gently blowing in the wind behind him. A large NC on his chest which is heaving with each manly breath.
(start hummming a patriotic sounding number here)
He is NC MAN! Guardian of No Contact. He is the enemy of repeat heartache, defender of the dumped. HE IS THE LAST BARRIER TO STOP THE PAIN.
The world is grateful, indebted, and loves NC MAN! We salute this hero.
Delete that number from your cell, Do not Text, use caller ID, Block those phone calls....... NC is the right thing to do!
a4a- nc is good
Haha. Thanks for the smile today I needed that!
Can I have a big NC on my chest, wear tights and cape too? Ooo ooo! I want a mask too!!!!
I was surprisingly well last night. No interest in contacting her and humiliating myself. I also tried not to think about all the taboo things in my head. The problem is, is I care for her so much, that one silly holiday is nothing. Every day has the potential to be the worst in terms of missing her.
It's so freaking hard retrieving myself after giving it all away to someone.
__________________
Days away I still feel you.
Touching me, changing me.
WNP, it's mind over matter, my friend. You'll have complete control over your emotions when you decide that you have had enough of giving it away to someone else.
Loving and Respecting one's self precedes being able to love and respect anyone else. Remember that.
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