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Hey hurtbeyondwords,
Its nice to know that u feel that your worth more again and that u have met someone, i bet it makes u feel more confident etc. I havent been through the whole rebound thing, all i would say thou is this:
Dont fall head-over-heels too quickly, you'll hurt even more if it doesnt work out like u want it to.
Chat to this girl, if she is going through something similar u have to watch that either of u is just doing it because u want to be close to someone again, not because u want them for who they are... at this stage u dont know for sure so take it easy and think outside of the box... what do you like about her especially from any other girl, not just what being with someone does for u e.g. a person for support is what u want, but this type of support has major faults when u have been feeling low.
rebounds, from what i have learnt, tend to not work because it is too intense and people are afraid or they are in it to try to feel what they had with an ex... the wrong reason.
if i was u i would take it VERY slow, see her by just getting to know her, explain to her what u feel about not wanting to rush things, she should understand that. my head says to leave it... your not ready... u need more time to clear yourself of baggage... but my heart wants someone to at the mo, who can make me feel good so?
Whatever u do dont do what i did with my ex, get too intense too quickly between u, feeling that she is amazing etc and that she can make u happy at this stage is dangerous. it really hurts when the wheels come off and u are let down again. Think that it might not work out as a mechanism for protecting yourself... its a risk so dont be stupid... it could do u more harm than good, be careful!
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