[El D4nt3]

Theres this girl that I like, but she doesn't know it. We have been talking really late into the night for a couple weeks. I think she's really cute, and might like me. So heres the deal.

Yesterday morning, I pulled into the turnaround of my school for a driving lesson, when I see all of my friends getting on a bus. I call one of my friends who I see getting on the bus, and he says "It's Emily's birthday." Apparently through some oversight, I was left uninvited.

While they were at the beach, they played truth or dare. The girl I like, Christine, was dared to lick my other friend Tomas' tongue, and then dared to hump his leg, which she did. WTF? Does she not know that I have feelings for her? Is she that oblivious? She seems fairly smart. She told me about doing it, but in passing. I am very worked up, and trying to cool down. I have not done anything rash. Should I?

I feel horrible. I'm shaking and I have a lump in my throat. Please help.

[El D4nt3]

One person posted a thread an hour ago and it has 12 posts already. Could someone please help me out?

[Spleen]

Sorry, it's a little confusing... you said she doesn't know that you like her yet, but are all worked up because you wonder, "doesn't she know I have feelings for her?" Of course she doesn't. Maybe she has an idea you might like her, but it doesn't mean anything until you speak to her and tell her straight up how you feel. She may have told you all that to see if you did have feelings and how you'd react. You should speak to her, tell her you like her a lot and want to know if she feels anything for you. Gotta make your intentions known or you'll get hurt every time she flirts with someone else.

[newbby]

even if she knows you have feelings for her, shes not your gf or anything! why shouldnt she hump this guys leg (lol)?

[GiveAndTake]

It seems to me, it was only a game. She is technically unattached so this "truth or dare" game shouldn't mean very much.

I wouldn't worry about it too much.

When you're playing a game like that, it's really not about feelings. If it were, there wouldn't be much of a "dare".


Another thought:
If she does in fact know about your feelings for her, is it possible she told you about it to stir you up?

[El D4nt3]

Thank you for your input. I have talked to her, and told her my feelings. She has not yet reciprocated, but we will see where it goes.