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Old 1st February 2006, 12:07 PM   #1
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Is wearing a ring when you're not married deceitful?

If a person is single and chooses to wear a ring on their wedding finger - is that a big deal?
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Old 1st February 2006, 12:09 PM   #2
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I want to know this too! My E/BF said he used to wear a wedding band when he was single just so he would get more attention.
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Old 1st February 2006, 12:09 PM   #3
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If it is to the person wearing the ring. Or if you're wearing it to fend off guys, or to act as if you're married when you're not.

Personally, you can wear a hagus on your wedding ring finger and I don't care.
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Old 1st February 2006, 12:59 PM   #4
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Why are you wearing a wedding ring? Were you married before and now you're divorced? If that's the case, you might be hurting yourself emotionally by holding onto the past. I think it can be wrong if you are lying to people. But the actual ring itself, no, it all depends on circumstances. But if it's just because the ring will only fit on that finger, then i think you should reconsider. The wedding finger still has meaning in our society and I would hate to see that ruined for a fashion statement. It's bad enough that women go after married men all the time, even when there is an indicator. How worse will it be if we lose that symbolic meaning?
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