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Old 29th January 2006, 1:28 PM   #1
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why is this a turn on?

Making me mad and hearing me scream at him turns him on!!! Ok no maybe this is not weird but then again I do not think that I like it. I hate being mad and I really can not stand it when he plays stupied.

After a fight he told me that he wanted me and that he gets excited everytime!!!

He gets me mad alot and I always try to find other ways to deal with it but then I blow up at him because he will continue not not understand my points???

Pls guys tell me why you would think this is happenening pls!!
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Old 29th January 2006, 2:11 PM   #2
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It sounds like...

a rather sick power and control tactic he's using because he knows he can push your buttons and make you react.

I think it most unhealthy.
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