i just signed up on lavalife. For a girl, it's been pretty overwhelming. You get bombarded by smiles/winks and email messages. Apparently ALL girls get it. Everyone wants to meet for coffee and wants your number. I never did anything like this before so I'm overwhelmed. I hid my profile and am corresponding with just a few guys. 3 passed onto the msn. 1 has now failed the msn test because he's too pushy and i just broke it off with him. I needed to do it now before it got any worse.
Becareful, dont give out your number too quick or any personal details. If you're not ready to meet anyone, dont. If they cant wait a few days/weeks/months until your comfortable enough to meet them, screw them. I'm very new to all of this but this is my first reactions.
I also posted this post
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t80025/