[Blackout23]

Hey loveshack people

Little overview of myself, when I first joined loveshack it was because the love of my life for 5years seperated with me. We was dating since 15-20(yes pretty young) so i didnt really date much when I was younger. Anyway, I've been single close to a year now and I've been dating around but nothing serious.

But recently, I met this girl online on one of those online sites such as friendster,facebook,myspace etc. She actually found me thru one of my friends. She msged me and we started to get to know each other thru AIM. So in the begining, I was so so interested in her and didn't give her that much attention. She would msg me very often and we would chat and sometimes I wouldn't respond because I was busy or didn't feel like talking. So finally she asked me for my number and I was sort of hesistant about giving that up becasue I was still in the so so interested stage. I mean we talked almost everyday for hours(online).

So I finally gave in and finally gave my number to her. The first time she called I didn't pick up and she left a voicemail but I returned her call by msging her online instead. Sometimes she would call me at the middle of the nite/morning time because she was at a party or something, of course I didn't pickup because I was sleeping. She would txt me or something afterwards and I would reply maybe in the morning.

Ok lets fast forward this to last week, (keep in mind that the above happen for a few weeks.) She wanted to meet me and I said I was busy at whatever date she decided. So we decided to push up the date to another day where we were both free.

Ok long story short haha, we met up and everything clicked pretty well even though she was a bit on the wild side but it was cool (something new for me.) Basicly I left at 430PM and returned the next day home at 630AM so that was how long our 'night' lasted. ::::important part:::: While we was hanging out she said she liked me a lot and that I was everything she imagined and she was very interested in me and yea, there was flirting like slight hitting each other you know? We had a good time together. Keep in mind I am a rather shy guy so nothing really extreme occured.

Ok after this she would still msg me the nxt day like ordinarly and I replied the same as usual. And we talked and I said I was INTERESTED in her too and told her I liked her, which I think is a mistake by NOW because after that day she sort of stopped msging and txting me as much. And she doesn't call me no more. I actually called her up one time and she said she was watching tv talk to me online.

Ok what went wrong? Was the chase over? She knew she got me interested in her so she starts playing games? I don't understand whats happening.

Did I screw it up by telling her I like her? Is she not interested at all no more?

I would really like your opinion to this matter because I'm such a newbie at this game. I don't know why it went south.

Please help!!!

[filarena]

It is possible that she's playing hard to get, but it sounds more like her level of interest has gone down. However, I don't think you messed up by telling her you like her. You were being very hard to get yourself. I'm surprised she never gave up on you. Odds are she was indeed enjoying the chase, and now it's over. She may still be interested but no longer feels the need to be all over you, but my hunch is that this is a waste of your time. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't have told her you like her. In the future, don't make a girl suffer so long before you're willing to give her a chance.

[Mary3]

I think you played games with her and she played games back.

Lesson learned : Don't play games.

[Humanoidfreak]

All i have to say is the internet / AIM / MSN romance / dating is not a good thing. It screws you up in the end and you start questioning it. I been there before and i wish i wasn't. Recently, i been doing it again, and your situation sounds exactly like mine. She basically told that she liked me, i said the same to her. I have not heard from her since. I emailed her 2 times and she has not mailed me back. I am not putting you down or anything, i am just saying be careful of meeting people on the net. It could work, but sometimes you regret it. Its up to you.

UPdate::

She got back to me... I guess your right maybe she is not as 'interested' as before but I'm not sure. I really hope that is not the case.

Well, in my defense I wasn't really playing games intentionally it was just how it happened.

Also she gave me a hint that 'wink''wink' v-day is around the corner... wow this girl makes me turn all giggley like a school girl haha.. its strange how you wasn't quite interested and then all of a sudden your head over heels over this person.

Wish me luck guys I know this newbie will need it.