Tell me what you think: Why would an ex call after five years of NC? A five-hour conversation with her revealed to me that we're both over the past now. But, really, five hours? I'd forgotten how much we really 'got' one another. What do you think? is this a friendship thing or a 'first love' complex ?
If you think you may consider giving things a go with her again, and you're both single, then why not arrange a hook-up? Nothing heavy, just few drinks.
Fact that she has called you after all this time proves she still thinks about you in some way. Even if there's no romantic spark there anymore (which you won't be able to tell until you see each other) enough time has passed so you could be friends now, you have nothing to lose, i say test the water and see.
That is sound advice. We may do that. The whole situation just threw me for a loop because she's the one who ended the relationship and disappeared. I missed her so much, but never contacted her because our split was bitter. Neither of us is seeing anyone right now. In fact, it's pretty recent that she ended her last relationship (this is why I was wondering). Ah... first love. Isn't it great?
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