The pain

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 8:29 AM

Just want to be able to stop sobbing. Want it all to end. Wish I was old and could die in my sleep.

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 8:54 AM

The world is so f***ing cruel. I can't take it anymore. Love is a joke. A big fat lie.

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 9:54 AM

And I hate Valentine's Day. Always dumped before the most romantic day of the year. Kill me now.

kitten chick · 23rd January 2006, 10:20 AM

(((HUGS)))

P.S. your kitty is cute

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 10:29 AM

Thank you for the hugs.

I feel about as depressed as the cat (not my actual cat, but i wish it was) looks.

Lishy · 23rd January 2006, 10:39 AM

Hey Jen ...... Dont ever wish to die (even in jest) for a stupid man!

If he dumped you then MORE FOOL HIM! He is the loser honey, not you! Get youself out there with the girls and let your hair down!!

Easier said than done I know but time will help you!

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 10:44 AM

Yeah, I know all about the time thing. It works until the next crushing blow. In the meantime, I just feel like hunkering down in bed for about the next three months where nobody can hurt me.

lilmoma1973 · 23rd January 2006, 10:47 AM

You are better than that Jen don't let no man bring you down and make you want to hurt yourself!! He isn't worth that and it is his loss so don't do nothing drastic.. I feel for you and can tell you it will get better !! Hugs to you and if you need someone to talk pm me and ill give you my email

Lishy · 23rd January 2006, 10:48 AM

That is fine if you have a big hunk to 'hunker' with Jen

Get dolled up and out there babe - Dont let some lame man get you down!

You are sexy and sassy so go out and strut your funky stuff!!!!!!

lilmoma1973 · 23rd January 2006, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Lishy

That is fine if you have a big hunk to 'hunker' with Jen

Get dolled up and out there babe - Dont let some lame man get you down!

You are sexy and sassy so go out and strut your funky stuff!!!!!!

Exactly Lishy did it and you can too...

Lishy · 23rd January 2006, 10:52 AM

Yeah I was strutting like a peacock on Friday hahahahha

kitten chick · 23rd January 2006, 10:55 AM

Take the time that you need to heal but limit it. Don't make the mistake of falling into permanent depression. Those with depression get hit with a double dose that's difficult to pull out of with these types of losses. Talk to your doctor if after a reasonable number of weeks you're still this depressed.

http://www.hbcprotocols.com/9types.html

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 10:55 AM

I tried that. Went out Saturday with my girlfriend to a swanky hotel bar, and there were tons of good looking men everywhere. Just my luck...they were all attending some "GLBT equality" fundraiser in the hotel ballroom, and were all gay.

jen_jen_heartbroken · 23rd January 2006, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by kitten chick

Take the time that you need to heal but limit it. Don't make the mistake of falling into permanent depression. Those with depression get hit with a double dose that's difficult to pull out of with these types of losses. Talk to your doctor if after a reasonable number of weeks you're still this depressed.

http://www.hbcprotocols.com/9types.html

I wish there was a magic pill the doc could give me so I could forget the last year and how much I lost, and how much I am in love with him. But all I have is Celexa, and that doesn't cure a broken heart.

lilmoma1973 · 23rd January 2006, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by jen_jen_heartbroken

I tried that. Went out Saturday with my girlfriend to a swanky hotel bar, and there were tons of good looking men everywhere. Just my luck...they were all attending some "GLBT equality" fundraiser in the hotel ballroom, and were all gay.

Be patient and have fun no one is saying get into another relationship have fun with friends and party !! Why you wanting a man when you are trying to get over the hurt? You need closure first than move on.. Just live the single life for awhile and have lots of fun !! Oh to be single again and no attachments ..