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Old 22nd January 2006, 1:01 PM   #1
True_Star
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Gay love triangle?

Been in a relationship for 6 months with a guy, lately he talks about how he has been talking to an acquaintance of ours on the phone, he said that this acquaintance really know how to make him laugh and he thinks he is pretty good looking, and when i confronted him and said if you like him so much why don't you date him, my bf replied and said don't be silly he is not my type. But then last night when we went out for drinks the way they looked at each other and the way they looked at each other , it is plain to see that there is something going on... sigh I don't know what to do , I feel so foolish for all i know they could be sleeping together, but if i do fully confront him about it what if he denies and instead questions my trust for him???
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Old 22nd January 2006, 1:40 PM   #2
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After 6 months with the guy you have a right to ask him that question. Listen to your gut. If something isn't feeling quite right, chances are it isn't.

It won't be easy and I couldn't imagine having to ask my husband if he has slept or planning on sleeping with another man, so I feel for what you're going through.

Be honest and tell him that it hurts that he could be falling for someone else, let alone another man. Watch his reactions closely, he may say one thing yet do another...

Don't feel foolish, this isn't your fault! Maybe he's confused about his sexuality or is bisexual and never told you? Please talk to him, not knowing for sure what is going on inside him will only make you feel worse.

Keep posting and good luck!
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