[alturrnababe]

When I was at my mum's today, my sister and her fiancee of 6 years were over.Anyway my mum was in the process of trying to find a workout dvd that she was going to give to me,and she said," wait, don't go home yet, I'm just looking for that dvd.I really want to give it to you." anyway to make this short, my sister's fiancee said,(under his breath , but I HEARD it) "yeah, and so do I".....I was speechless.What on earth prompted that....They have four kids!!!! I could never ever tell anyone....I would ruin everything for my little sister! I just don't know what to do...should I just ignore it?Am I making too much of this? ANY advice would be most welcome, I've been thinking about this all day!

[Curmudgeon]

I'd let it go this time. If it happens again I'd confront him and tell your sister. It sounds like he's not what he seems to her.

Perhaps there's a reason they have four children and he's still only a fiance.