[mysticrain]

What would you guys do?
My bf got a gal pregnant during their one night stand.
He said that the gals family threatened to complain to his employer and have him disbarred from being a lawyer if he did not marry their daughter.
The gal was older than my bf she is 35 years old and my bf is 34 years old.
They got married last dec 30.
And now he wants me around in his life. He said that im the one he loves.
Where we at right now: I ask him to give me an engagement ring and told him that he has until dec 31, 2006 to get off from the wedding his in.
The child will be born on July of 2006.
The guy lives with his parents and the gal lives with hers. They dont have any plans of moving in so far. The guy doesnt want to finance a new house for the gal.
Will you give this guy a chance? What other test are you willing to make him go through if he wants me back?

I don't know if i really love him. Right now i am just so upset that he had to marry someone who is nothing compared to me. My ego was shattered. At first i was hurt that someone i loved actually will not think of fighting for me or for us.

What are your thoughts?

[bluechocolate]

He said that the gals family threatened to complain to his employer and have him disbarred from being a lawyer if he did not marry their daughter.

That just sounds like such garbage to me. What country do you live in?

I ask him to give me an engagement ring and told him that he has until dec 31, 2006 to get off from the wedding his in.

I don't see how he can give you an engagement ring when he's currently married to somebody else.

The gal was older than my bf she is 35 years old and my bf is 34 years old.

What is the relevance of their age difference - it's nothing.

My bf got a gal pregnant during their one night stand.

hmm..... and you believe that?

What are your thoughts?

He's 35 years old & bows to pressure from the father of a one night stand to marry a woman he doesn't know. My thoughts? If this is real - forget about him. Move on.

[witabix]

He is a lying troll.

[Larrry]

Impregnating a single female will not get a lawyer disbarred! I'm not necessarily down on lawyers, but this guy is lying sack of ****.
He just wants to string you along so he can get some tail when his current pregnant wife goes through morning sickness and when she gets too big to be fun.
I feel sorry for you, but I feel more sorry for the poor woman who's giving birth to this scumball's child. Both you and her deserve better!