Are there any guys out there who don't like porn????
Help us ladies on this one, we firmly believe porn is the companion of a male who doesn't get any, but help us understand this deal with dating a woman and still desiring porn?????? Aren't we enough? We know you're going to check out other women in public, but naked? It's so degrading to our self esteem. Plus, we don't get to do it with you, which really bums us out...
Help us ladies on this one, we firmly believe porn is the companion of a male who doesn't get any
Not all woman feel this way men. I don't and many of my friends don't. generalizations like this are narrow minded. it would be like a man starting a post that said We men frimly believe that any woman who doesn't like porn or at the very least doesn't throw a pity party when her man views it is a prude and immature.
My H does not like porn alone or with me..... I tried to spice it up a bit with some..... I ended up watching while working him over.
He does not look at it on the computer, nor has he ordered it. No porn in his house when we met either.
He does not get into strip clubs either ..... turns down invites as he states he does not want a skank taking his cash. He said it not me..... don't go off on me.
But he is by far the best lover I have ever had! Gumby man! Damn Damn good! So good I had to marry him
He is an atheist and far from a prude..... just does not dig women who let it all hang out I guess? BTW he is Hot as hell...... ummmmm ummmmm ummmmm
I can't ever get it out of my head that the girl on the screen is someone's daughter.
Well great now you ruined porn for me! geeze....... I always tried to keep the possible under age thing out too........ how do we really know that some of these girls are over 18........ some look too young... was there not one that was doing porn before 18 years of age? I forget her name.
As for a man needing porn if not getting it...... H admits to monthly masturbation before we met..... he did not have sex, not even a date for 3.5 years..... did not find a woman that was worth his while. Then again he is old.... 36.....
Help us ladies on this one, we firmly believe porn is the companion of a male who doesn't get any, but help us understand this deal with dating a woman and still desiring porn?????? Aren't we enough? We know you're going to check out other women in public, but naked? It's so degrading to our self esteem. Plus, we don't get to do it with you, which really bums us out...
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Ladies
Its been my understanding (I don't "study" guys much so try to bare with me) that guys have a mental state that is "engaged" when a strong enuff sexual desire "sweeps" by to get them 'horny' or 'aroused', more of a "fanticitical" state of mind about sex. They want thier strongest sexual desires fulfilled, and I am guessing in most guys that is done by porn and/or 'gentlemen' clubs.
I personally don't care for porn, its never really interested me, but I do know alot of girls who are heavy into porn.. Im still tring to figure that one out, and I think im almost there If you have an idea plz share it, would take a little bit off my mind.
My H does not like porn alone or with me..... I tried to spice it up a bit with some..... I ended up watching while working him over.
He does not look at it on the computer, nor has he ordered it. No porn in his house when we met either.
He does not get into strip clubs either ..... turns down invites as he states he does not want a skank taking his cash. He said it not me..... don't go off on me.
But he is by far the best lover I have ever had! Gumby man! Damn Damn good! So good I had to marry him
He is an atheist and far from a prude..... just does not dig women who let it all hang out I guess? BTW he is Hot as hell...... ummmmm ummmmm ummmmm
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could you kindly clone him and send me a few copies??
ok here is my own view and i already know it is contradictory but what can i say--
i look at porn and get off on it. however, i do not want a guy i am serious about to be heavily into it. occasional view is ok, but if he sneaks around and has to do it alot...no like here
reason is probably because...i think he should be focused on doing me...so if he needed naked pics of me that would be ok...
Everybody is someone's daughter. Including your own gf.
Exactly. Now, currently I'm not in a relationship, but that's something I never forget. That's why I like to treat milady with gentleness, kindness and respect. Porn, on the other hand, is seldom about respect (at least from what I've seen).
I know that smart people can disagree on this issue, but that's just MHO.
Thanks for the responses, everyone, it is really helpful to hear.
Cigny, I did do just what you said, I gave my guy some nice naked pics of me, and he went and locked them up so I couldn't take them...he thought I was going to do something on the computer with them, but I told him if he needs to look at naked women in sexy poses I would be HAPPY to do that for him....
And yes, I probably did generalize and when I'm single porn's not so bad, I just have an issue with being in a long-term loving relationship and expressing to your partner it bothers you, but they insist on continuing it. Makes me feel, well you're better off single...dumped a guy for that, among other reasons.
BTW found the pictures sneakily hidden, ripped them up....but damn me he stole the cd with the pics on it. I even disguised it as something else and put it in a different cover....
Hmmm wonder where those are now> He doesn't even know how to use a computer, much less get info from a CD...
The statistics are staggering enough to say that the vast majority of men and a significant number of women are into porn. Porn is here to stay and its not going away. There's nothing worng with porn.
I don't watch porn much myself. Vary rarely, like a few times a year. But I still would not date a girl who objected to it as much as some of the posters here. I see girls like that as immature. It tells me that they have unrealistic expectations.
Guys like porn! Live with it or go be a nun!
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BTW found the pictures sneakily hidden, ripped them up....but damn me he stole the cd with the pics on it. I even disguised it as something else and put it in a different cover....
Wow, you sure do have a loving relationship thats build on trust and strong communication.
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If you have an idea plz share it, would take a little bit off my mind.
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