[GirlMagnet]

OK, I had a IM convo with a friend a while ago. At the start it was going really good, but then in the end it kinda "dropped". Now I really think this girl was cool...but I think I was being "annoying". Here are some parts of the convo in the end (shes a girl):
Me:lol...kk...i understand, man did that sex-change you told me about really change who you were?is it that hard being a girl?ok heres a tip: you gotta act more FEMININE, i know its hard being a girl.haha.mayb i'll bring u a barbie bag or something.
Her:lol, i hate babrie, aye brbr.

(she didnt reply to my joke, is this a good sign? And she also said "brb"; should I have just left the convo instead of carrying on?)

Me: hey b4 u go.... what else is there 2 do at sunshine coast?
Her:how am i supposed to noe? u can chek out da ladies lol

Memg..I almost forgot!!!!better bring my binos.nah..i dun need 2 check out the ladies, they check me out and then I do my MOVES.they come TO ME

her:aHAhah yeh ritteee one day jeryyee one day. aye brb
(She said it again, should I have left her alone? All i wanted was some fun)

mesigh)...is it really too much too handle?I know I know...theres TONNES attraction in this convo and its overloading your brain isnt itlol, just learn to....accept it, hey are there lots of azns in Sunshine Coast when you were there?

Her:nope,.. dere were a few though,okay seriously.. shut up for a while okay

And after this I left, without saying bye. Was this a smart move? Man I hope I didnt make a fool of myself, and I hope I'm not classified as annoying?
Will she get over it? And she is also very pretty, so what would be the best action I can take and has anyone else been in the same position?
I'm not usually like this. Should I just get over it, maybe its not such a big deal?

[JayKay]

Maybe I'm showing my age but I can't even begin to follow what your conversation with this gal was all about.

Maybe she wasn't mad. Just confused.

[GirlMagnet]

Oh Ok. I'll briefly tell you guys about the start. Well she began talking to me about my holiday that I'm going to soon and we had a very funny conversation. But then I decided to muck around with her some more, but is this a really wise move because in IM you cant really use body language and tone right?

[JayKay]

That's true. One of the problems with email and IM'ing and all that is people can't hear your tone. So it's hard to know if you're joking, being sarcastic or just being snotty.

Emoticons help sometimes to imply what it is you're saying and what you're frame of mind is like

but it's still hard to communicate everything you want to over the internet.

Maybe just tone it down a bit if you think the humour isn't going over well. Is she someone you may end up talking to in real life?

[GirlMagnet]

LOL.Yea. I do use emoticons often.

And she is some1 that I used to talk to because she went to my skool, but I've changed schools now so Im gonna be talking to her online 4 most of the time.

Just browsing the boards. Yes, you're very annoying. I mean she told you to shut up. That's not a "mixed signal". Clue in.

[loony]

Could it be you read too many books about dating that these self-proclaimed dating gurus have produced? From your conversation I can tell that you're trying to attract and tease someone (in a way that I don't find very funny) who is absolutely not interested in you (and no wonder...). Nothing annoys more than a guy who tries to attract you by teasing you, especially if the teasing is not very funny.

[Touche]

Well, from what I could even understand of this conversation (I'm with Jay Kay on that) two things jump out at me. One, your arrogance about the ladies coming to you. What a turnoff that is to most women. And two, the bit about ending the conversation without saying goodbye. Very rude.

[No Stress Lady]

Originally Posted by JayKay

Maybe I'm showing my age but I can't even begin to follow what your conversation with this gal was all about.

Maybe she wasn't mad. Just confused.

I couldn't understand him either. Must be an age thing