wife left with baby more help please

peter

Hi this is for shirley ot totally confussed.

thank you both for giving me the advice two days back,

but I have more problems, the thing is i saw my wife on sat night and we both aggread i would stay away and not contact her for 2 weeks to let things calm down as we was both very confussed at the moment and i didnt want my wife making any harsh decisions about our future, the thing is i broke my heart out to my wife explaining how i felt without her and my child, she said as long as i stayed away she would spend the time thinking,(she also said that she still loved me and was wearing her wedding rings)but this morning I received a solicitors letter saying my wife had been to see them yestaday and wanted to know about the access I could have to my child this upset me a lot because I thought my wife was taking the time to think about things, so i phoned her and asked why she had done it and she said she needed it an black and white but she was still thinking about things, all I want is to know where i stand, its killing me please help.