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Old 10th January 2006, 12:10 PM   #1
Mydish1
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girls have you ever had this type of relationship with a guy? how do you classify it?

I dont know how to explain what kind of relationship this is.
But i've been seeing this girl for about 2 months so far....
Anyway our personalities are very similar, and we have a great deal in common that we understand each other so well, that we know each other's thinking and wants.
usually i speak to her everyday, but i havent spoken to her for these past few days. And yesterday online, all of a sudden she asked "did you miss me?", i asked her back , she said kind of and i said a little bit....which is strange cause she never asked this.

eventually we were asking each other questions, about how we felt about each other and what this relationship is. Neither of us could explain what it is, because it feels like a friendship and a bf/gf thing (we do things that couples do), yet we arent exclusive so you could say its casual. It's laid back and there are no arguments that come along with commited relationships. So being unable to categorize it, we just label each other as friends...(we're not sex buddies, well we only did it 1x)

I dont know she keeps saying im the "perfect guy", and asked me some other questions such as if i like having her my side...or if i like cute/sexy better. or if i got into a LTR with another girl, would we still be friends? She got a little worried when i mentioned perhaps cutting contact if that happens.
it's weird and cool how we always end up being on the same page of things.

Sounds to me like there could be fear of commitment, because well...when ppl breakup sometimes they dont even keep in contact. She mentioned friends are forever....so im thinking she wants me in her life yet is afraid to lose me if we ever got commited and not work out. So with time who knows how this will unravel...

girls, have you ever had a similar situation with a guy? And how did it turn out between both of you?

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