[TheRock]

Last Monday, I came across a picture on Match.com and viewed the girl's profile. I kind of felt weird after seeing it. Turned out it's the girl I'm seeing's pic. Didn't even know she was on there. I think she has the ability to see who viewed her profile AND, I KNOW that she logged onto Match this past Wed. I didn't mention I saw it, and don't know if she knows, but that's when she stopped calling...Should I say that I saw it?

[bluechocolate]

Should I say that I saw it?

Yes, why not? But if she's stopped calling then you may not have the chance anyway.

[Lishy]

Are you not just a guilty for looking through the personals whilst you are supposed to be dating?

[TheRock]

I wasn't looking to find a date. A mutual friend said he thought he the girl I'm dating's pic on there and that got my curiosity going. Same way though, shouldn't she stop checking it also??

[Lishy]

Yes she should if you both are exclusive!

Talk to her about it!

[clandestinidad]

She stopped calling......what about you calling her?? i dont know anything about your situation, but maybe she thinks its your turn to call

??

[TheRock]

How should I go about this? If I get her voicemail, what should I say without sounding bad?

[Lishy]

If it's her voicemail just ask her to call you back!

Tell her the truth, that a friend saw her and told you and you didnt belive it so you had a look yourself. Then ask why she is on a dating site.

[TheRock]

I called her once and she text messaged me back saying she was sick, on antibiotics and couldn't go out last night. And said she was sorry. I sent one back telling her I was looking foward to seeing her and hope she gets well soon. That was it. Don't know if she was for real or not.

[Lucasarts]

dont believe her? visit her when she says she's sick

not that hard

its easy to spot a fake "sick" to a real sick person

[clandestinidad]

wait a sec....when did you call? and when did she say she was sick....was it yesterday???

if so, then no no no no....dont call!!!