How do you make that decision?

sick of it · 6th January 2006, 10:23 PM

So, only being in 1 relationship, and never being the dumper, i dont understand how you come to the decision to actively say to yourself, "this person, who ive trusted all of my secrets to, been intimate with, relied on and have involved in every aspect of my life for a long time (in my case 5 years), i dont want in my life anymore and am willing to let them go completely without showing any regard to their feelings or well-being."

can someone explain this to me how you can let someone so important to you just go without any care...or what seems to be any care?

BigJayTee · 7th January 2006, 3:31 AM

yeah, the total not caring thing has me baffled too.

lauraandbrats · 7th January 2006, 4:16 AM

Ive had it happen 2 me 2 just gutted after all or plans 2gether just gone out the window asked her why reply dont no

9 weeks of gifts money txts you name it still the same

she just dont want to no me anymore i have not done nuffin wrong to her not 1 thing 2 make it go

just went as quick as it came FUNNY THAT

Take care be strong and if poss move on i no it takes time

I txted 100 txts a day 2 get her txts saying REALY or MAYB or I NO U DO

lauraandbrats · 7th January 2006, 4:21 AM

Well the 1 i had cant even tell i lies always me so im told she just moved out of our flat we rented asked her if she had moved out NO reply thats a lie

WHY DOES LOVE JUST GO WITH THE WIND AND ONLY 1 PERSON GETS HURT

sick of it · 7th January 2006, 10:45 AM

...ill be honest, i dont understand what the heck youre typing lauraandbrats

chocolate_boy · 8th January 2006, 9:37 AM

Yeah it is odd, but if they did it to you in a cold/careless way , they will to their next partner too, trust me.