[Brookiedoll87]

My ex boyfriend and i had dated for 2 1/2 years... things were great but every relationship has the occasional ups and downs... We broke up about... ummm... 2 months ago. I am with a new guy who i love very dearly - him and i before the ex was off and on for about a year , so it was kind of an old love coming back... but anyways the ex... his name is adam... i love him still. I think about him all the time unless i am with Paul. When i am with paul i am like a blissful happy but when i was with adam i was IN LOVE. I know its going to be hard to not think about adam because i know i just cant throw away 2 1/2 years... i am lost... i know that i want to be with paul, but adam still has a piece of my heart. Everytime i think about him i want to cry cause all i want to do is tell him i still love him... but at the same time , i know that talking to him isint going to help me get over him any faster... please give me some advice

[clandestinidad]

You were in a relationship w/ Adam for a long time. Its understandable that you still feel for him and care about him. Plus you've only been broken up with him for 2 months, so you havent had enough time to get over it. The longer the relationship, the longer it takes to acknowledge what youve learned/taken away from it, heal yourself, and be ready for another relationship.

I think your problem is that youve tried moving on to someone else too soon. Give yourself some more time before starting again with someone else. Plus, you dont want this guy to be a rebound, do you??