[Phily]

Hi!

Thanks for reading my post. I'm a 27yo guy who has been in a relationship with a MW for the past 10 months. She is 30yo and is traditional (off the boat) Chinese and lives with her husband and mother. We've been best friends for two years before anything had happened between us. However, I'm jealous of the amount of time her and her husband spend together. How can I "fight" these feelings of insignificance that I have? She always tells me how important I am to her but she feels indebted to her very sick grandparents for raising her (that's why she won't leave her husband, because she doesn't want to disappoint them before they pass away).

I'm also the fifth man she has been intimate with and the only one she says who has ever given her "pleasure". She also told me that she has been intimate with me more times than all of the men she's been with including her husband combined... We spend about 2 hours together each day during the week and are intimate most of those days... I guess based on everything she has told me and her background, Do I have any reason to feel so damn jealous???

Thanks so much and Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukah!!!