[Mistaken Identity]

I posted earlier under "Grounds for Divorce." Anyway, my husband went to work this morning--or so I thought--and hasn't come home yet. His boss called looking for him. So I guess he didn't go to work after all. Sigh...Here I am with my five year-old daughter a thousand miles away from my family. I'm starting to get depressed. So I thought I'd ask a question to help evaluate my husband's motives. He left me recently for about five months. During the first month or more, he didn't want to see his daughter because he said it made him too sad. He didn't give me child support, either. He didn't work and rarely left the apartment except to go drinking at a bar by his place. Was he really that sad? I think I'm an idiot...