[queenie01]

Yeah so today my ex decided to talk to me in the gym and i realized i really dont like talking to him...it makes me sad.
He came up to me and said hey and then took his head phones off so i took mine off. He asked how ive been i said good and asked him the same. He told me he wanted to tell me his new goal which was to quit smoking and run some 5k... yeah like i care. He asked me how my thanksgiving was i asked the same...basically we just chit chatted back and forth for 5minutes or so...nothing to exciting going on with him. He said he is a booze hound. was at the bar from 12-9 on sunday...thats a turn on.. HA!

So i am sort of down now because whenever i talk to him i think of "us"

How exciting is his life when all he does is go to the bars every weekend...i guess i will never understand but its all his choice. Just sad with xmas coming since last year we spent it together and it was amazing.

[cynicalnlove]

Originally Posted by queenie01

Yeah so today my ex decided to talk to me in the gym and i realized i really dont like talking to him...it makes me sad.
He came up to me and said hey and then took his head phones off so i took mine off. He asked how ive been i said good and asked him the same. He told me he wanted to tell me his new goal which was to quit smoking and run some 5k... yeah like i care. He asked me how my thanksgiving was i asked the same...basically we just chit chatted back and forth for 5minutes or so...nothing to exciting going on with him. He said he is a booze hound. was at the bar from 12-9 on sunday...thats a turn on.. HA!

So i am sort of down now because whenever i talk to him i think of "us"

How exciting is his life when all he does is go to the bars every weekend...i guess i will never understand but its all his choice. Just sad with xmas coming since last year we spent it together and it was amazing.

Gosh I'm sorry to hear. I don't know why these people always come into our lives to shake things up. Is there another Gym you could go to without the risk of running into him? I know everytime i think of my ex, i cringe at the very thought. Just try to do everything to avoid it at all cost.

[queenie01]

Thanks...its sort of hard since we work together and the gym is downstairs. I switched my time so that i only see him 2 times a week now rather than 5. Just wish he worked somewhere else. The holiday seasons sort of stink and Christmas is my favorite...last year was the best!!

Oh well at least i know hes just out there partying and hasnt replaced me, still stinks tho.

[cynicalnlove]

Originally Posted by queenie01

Thanks...its sort of hard since we work together and the gym is downstairs. I switched my time so that i only see him 2 times a week now rather than 5. Just wish he worked somewhere else. The holiday seasons sort of stink and Christmas is my favorite...last year was the best!!

Oh well at least i know hes just out there partying and hasnt replaced me, still stinks tho.

Yeah i know, the feeling of being replaced. Its not as if he had replaced you, its just that he found someone else to put up with his BS. Yikes, working together sucks - have you tried dating other people?

[queenie01]

Well he hasnt replaced me, hes still single as has been ever since he broke up with me. I sort of get the feeling that he just wanted to live his life and not miss out on anything... I have already done that. The bar scene is only fun for so long then you get burnt out.

My guy friends tell me that being single for a guy is only fun for so long, its expensive and it gets lonely. Who knows tho....we have already been broken up for 7 months so i gave up hope.

I still think about him a lot and miss him just because we had such a great relationship, i always wished he would come back.

I have tried dating other people and was actually really into one guy but then he moved away : (

Trust me im not sitting around rotting over here but still miss him lots and wish things would have worked out differently and i would always like to believe that he thinks of me too and im thinking the holidays will make him think too..