my bf and i have been knowing each other for more than a year . and we planned to get married next year, and we had planned many things, becoz he is 8 yrs older than i am. everything was ok in the beginning. until one day, i found that he was married before. i was so shocked and felt so cheated. he never told me that he ever got married before,he just said that he has a gf. i dont mind to marry a divorcee. everybody made mistake. but i could not agree his dishonesty. i tried to fixed the things up, and tried to talk to him , i was hoping everything can be fixed up.but i just couldnt get rid of the fear of knowing him lied to me again. i dun feel secure. i simply couldnt trust him. and i dont know which is right which is not true from him .
when i wanted to discuss abt it, he turns angry n refused to talk abt it and didnt want to pick up the phone. until i decided to leave him silently. although deep inside i miss him alot. this relationship really made me sad...
i really confuse...just hoping i could go far away...

[UltimateZen]

If you have known him over a year, you were engaged, and he has recently told you he was married before that is one hell of a secret to keep. why did he tell you now? If he kept it this long, what prompted him to come clean? what other secret 'bombs' is he keeping?