[IslandGirl]

Hi,

I just came across this site and I'm shocked. Is this actually I place where I can talk about my affair with a married man and people will understand? People won't call me the scum of the earth? Can I actually talk openly and once and for all get the story off my chest? I've been bottling it all up since it started in Sept 2004.

I guess I'll read thru some of the other threads and see.

Thanks.

[travellingman]

Originally Posted by IslandGirl

Hi,

I just came across this site and I'm shocked. Is this actually I place where I can talk about my affair with a married man and people will understand? People won't call me the scum of the earth? Can I actually talk openly and once and for all get the story off my chest? I've been bottling it all up since it started in Sept 2004.

I guess I'll read thru some of the other threads and see.

Thanks.

No judgment here. I have been in some untraditional situations myself, and the worst part is not being able to talk to anyone about it, especially when you're falling in love and it's not just a sex fling.

[newbby]

oh you will get judged alright, but there are a few people in here who wont judge you, and you can just ignore the ones who do

[Sami_D]

ditto what newbby said.

And hello Travellingman. I've noticed your posts on a couple of threads and I'm wondering if you have a story to share..?

[travellingman]

Originally Posted by Sami_D

ditto what newbby said.

And hello Travellingman. I've noticed your posts on a couple of threads and I'm wondering if you have a story to share..?

you bet I do, but I can't just yet

[IslandGirl]

Thanks. I have a ton of things to do today, and my story will be a long one. So I'll be back tonight.

I think being able to FINALLY talk about it will be so helpful. I can handle being judged by some of the people as long as I can finally find at least one other person who understands all I've been thru and am still being put thru.

I can almost feel the weight being lifted already. I only wish he could find a place like this to talk...cuz he is MESSED UP!! (and I can't lend him an ear anymore)

Thanks again,

IslandGirl