We Started Dating Again But.....

FORGETMENOT00 · 28th November 2005, 9:30 PM

(we Broke Up 2 Months Ago). It Only Took Me 4 Days Of Ignoring Him For Him To Miss Me And Come Back. This Is The Fourth Time We Had Broken Up. He Always Dumps Me Because We Argue About Stupid Things Because We Are Both Stubborn. But I Know The Real Reason Is Because I'm Around Him Too Much And He's The Type Of Person Who Gets Sick Of People And Likes To Be Alone. Whereas I Like To Be With Him And I Smother Him And Don't Give Him Enough Space. So Usually After About A Week Of Leaving Him Alone, He Comes Back Around And We Get Back Together. (i Know It's A Mistake On My Part To Always Take Him Back). Ok, So About A Month Ago We Started Dating Again And Hanging Out. For About 4 Days I Didnt Return Any Of His Calls, And I Guess It Really Bothered Him Because I Finally Called Him Back And Invited Him To See A Movie And He Acted Totally Unavailable. And Ever Since Then, I've Been Somewhat Chasing Him And It Hasn't Been The Same. He's Been Running Away. A Few Days Ago We Finally Talked And I Told Him That He Needs To Let Me Get Over Him And Not Call Me 2 Weeks Later And Ask Me To Hang Out. And He Jokingly Said ' But I Like To Bug You' He's Obviously Clueless As To What He Wants. So Immature And He's 27!! Anyway, Do You Think He'll End Up Missing Me Again And Calling To Hang Out All Over Again Like Every Other Time?? Im Doing No Contact And Its Only Been 2 Days.

JS17 · 28th November 2005, 10:01 PM

Did you really capitalize every word?

FORGETMENOT00 · 28th November 2005, 10:24 PM

no thats weird. i dont know why that happened.

FORGETMENOT00 · 29th November 2005, 12:47 AM

Anybody have any decent advice?? Think he'll call again??

AtarisKid · 29th November 2005, 5:22 PM

he'll call eventually, if i were you i would keep doing NC for at least 2 weeks to see what happens, it obvious to me that he has the upper hand and you need to regain that place, but not talking to him for a couple weeks he'll think that you are doing just fine without him, believe me us guys hate that, we do like it when girls chase us....so when you dont talk to him for a while he'll start to wonder what your upto...if he doesnt call then i guess he doesnt want anything to do with, but i think he'll call, just give it some time and do some stuff to better yourself and try not to think about him, if you do it will start to affect things around you...hang in there!