Hey all. I'm 25 male that is somewhat experienced with relationships but I need some help figuring this out:
I met this really attractive girl at work a few weeks back at my workplace. Now I had just went through a dramatic episode with my ex at the time b/c I wanted some space. So I was in the right by talking to this new girl.
Anyways, I had trained this new girl at work so I got to know her pretty well. I had also been informed by my co-worker and friend that he noticed how her eyes were just locked on me whenever we were talking. So that of course encouraged me to ask her out. Which I did.
We went out about five times in the last two weeks, both of us enjoying it. Now here comes the confusion. She asked me one day at work if I wanted to stay over her place after Thanksgiving and I said sure. Then it got moved up to that monday before then that sunday. So I ended up staying a week earlier than planned and stayed sund and monday night.
Well everything went cool through those days and all and I left tuesday morning to pick up my boy. I called her that night and she sounded somewhat distant. She told me that an ex had called her wanting her back and said he still loved her and such, plus her ex-husband pretty much did the same thing that day too. She also made it a point to say that she knows she don't want to be with either one of them but it was just "alot" for her to deal with in one day.
Understandle....but she goes on how she just wants to go out instead of me being over at her place with her daughter their b/c she doesn't want to confuse her....I totally understand that. We still had plans to go out this past friday b/c she wouldn't have her daughter. Well friday comes and she doens't call me til late. Well says she will call me saturday.....
Saturday comes and so does sunday...no call
Now monday and I am debating if I should call or not. Its not killing me or anything, I mean shes nice and all but I have been in this familiar situation before. She seems like she would be blunt with me about anything but then again I dont' know her that well.
So any help or suggestions would be great! Thanks.
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