[confusedgrl]

I'm 25 years old, no kids. I've been married to my husband for almost 3 years. We got married after just 3 months of dating and now I'm scared it's never gonna work. We are so different. He NEVER shows me any kind of affection. He never tells me I'm pretty. He NEVER wants to talk to me. He just comes home from work and stares at the TV. Lately I've been going up to my ex fiance's bar and hanging out with him and some old friends. The problem is, everytime I go up there HE gives me the attention I need by telling me how good I look and just focusing on me. The past few times we got drunk together, we ended up making out (when no one was around.) I told my husband about this and he said he can forgive me and we just have to try to work things out. I told him I felt like our marriage is over because we are so different but he said he will change if I do. He always says that. He told me, which is understandable, that I have to stop talking to my ex. I dont know if I can. I know I dont want a relationship with him, but I love the attention he gives me. And the kissing. I dont know what to do. Should my husband and I seperate? I feel like I'm not gonna be able to stop what's going on with my ex. Please help. (By the way, we've decided to go to counseling.)