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Old 25th November 2005, 2:47 AM   #1
lostjeff
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I need help making a plan to ask this girl out

Guys, since you have brought up some convincing points on why it is dangerous to ask coworkers out, I was thinking of other girls I could go out with.

There is a girl who sometimes comes into the bookstore where I work at. By chance we started talking to each other. She is French which gave us something in common because I am trying to learn it myself. Anyways we talked for a bit and then she left. As she was leaving the store I waved and said "au revoir!" and she yelled chow! back. It made me happy and I am attracted to her. I saw her again the other day but was too busy to talk to her, but we smiled at each other.

I really want to talk to her again. I noticed that she has an order on the shelf that she will eventually pick up. I was wondering if I should slip a note inside the book saying something in case we don't meet again. Can you guys give me any ideas? I was thinking along the lines of "Hey ***, say hi to me next time and I might buy you something in the cafe -lostjeff

I don't know, is leaving a note creepy? On a related note, is it wrong to ask a customer out at the venue you work at? Thanks guys.

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Old 25th November 2005, 2:54 AM   #2
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I think Ciao is italian for goodbye ...perhaps I am wrong ......

just ask her face to face if you ask me ................

I asked a girl out once by note .... I really never thought about her being a bank teller she got a wierd look on her face when I handed her the note and the security guard went for his gun ....... yeah not a big fan of notes and by the way she never called
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Old 25th November 2005, 3:23 AM   #3
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ciao is also spanish...anyways i wouldnt be creeped out by a note but i'd rather have a guy come up to me personally and no its not weird for a guy to ask out a customer at work
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Old 25th November 2005, 5:00 AM   #4
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Are you sure its okay for you to ask a customer out ? I would find out the store policy lest you get into trouble....
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Old 25th November 2005, 6:27 AM   #5
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thats true...but i would ask someone out at work and hope not to get caught hehe (dont listen to me, i dont want you to lose your job!)
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