Girls you fk and girls you marry**

loveheart59 · 17th November 2005, 9:06 AM

I saw this poll the other day that said the most popular choice for marriage was jennifer Aniston (followed by Halle Berry) and the woman men would have an affair with was Angelina Jolie. How do guys make these choices?

Both of the lists were totally different! My friend was tellin me the other day that guys come up to her all the time wanting to have sex with her and she cant understand why. She doesnt want this kind of attention but it happens anyway.

Are girls the same way about this with guys? If was a lesbian I would have sex with Angelina and marry Juliette lewis. Dont ask me why, I have a formula but I dont know what it is

Some guys, please help me!!!

ReluctantRomeo · 17th November 2005, 9:24 AM

For me, the two lists would probably be very similar, if not exactly the same...

RecordProducer · 17th November 2005, 4:26 PM

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Originally Posted by ReluctantRomeo

For me, the two lists would probably be very similar, if not exactly the same...

Ooohhhh, how cute!

I've had men who wanted me for sex only, those who wanted me as a wife, those who didn't want me at all, those who wanted to use me financially... I wouldn't put myself as any type. Definitely there are plenty of them who want to date me or just have sex with me. There are a few who want to be with me seriously. Luckily, I need just one (for marriage & sex)!

ReluctantRomeo · 18th November 2005, 8:27 AM

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Originally Posted by RecordProducer

Ooohhhh, how cute!

Thanks

loveheart59 · 18th November 2005, 3:17 PM

I tend to find its easier for girls to forgive guys past sexual endevors than vice versa.

I havent "laid down with a man" yet (dont believe in sex without love) but guys treat me like a princess. Theres something attractive to guys about a good looking virgin, dont know what. Ive been told by a friend that Im seen as a "challenge". Flattering! Anyways I do get treated different from my friends whove spread it about a bit. Which is nice, my friend (who only has sex once a year) gets treated the same too.

Possibly its because weve both got babyfaces, more innocent?

SmoochieFace · 18th November 2005, 3:23 PM

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Theres something attractive to guys about a good looking virgin, dont know what.

That's easy to explain as well: Guys like to be *first*. It's a pride thing. Nothing complicated about it.

TUDOR · 18th November 2005, 3:36 PM

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Originally Posted by loveheart59

Theres something attractive to guys about a good looking virgin, dont know what.

Personally sex with a virgin was never some holy grail for me. I always wanted an experienced woman that knew how to do things to me that would make her mom blush!

mental_traveller · 20th November 2005, 6:46 PM

It's pretty simple. Wild, crazy, passionate and even screwed up women are often great to have sex with. Involvement with them is rarely boring. But they would be quite unsuitable in a long-term relationship, let alone marriage. They would create a lot of drama and headaches for you, your friends would hate them, and society would disapprove.

Equally, someone with the emotional stability necessary for a low drama relationship/marriage, is often more reserved or conservative, so they don't have that bad girl appeal. Someone "suitable" to friends, family, work colleagues etc is by definition a bit conformist and predictable, lacking in challenge, and so on. Guys like variety and they like to act bad sometimes. Being married to Mrs Goody Two Shoes can become a bore.

Most guys would love to go to bed with some hot stripper or porn actress for one night. But do you really think they'd want to marry someone like that?

Also like Alpha said, you can have hot women who are dumb or boring. Someone's personality doesn't matter on a one-night stand, whereas it matters in marriage.

zara · 23rd November 2005, 11:13 AM

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Most guys would love to go to bed with some hot stripper or porn actress for one night. But do you really think they'd want to marry someone like that?

I am a hot stripper and the answer is no. However, i don't tend to look to work for my dating opportunities - since would i want to marry someone like that? no.

I am defiantely not one considered 'marriage' material - never have been, doubt i ever will be. Unfortunately, i also have a lot going on upstairs and when guys are lured by the T&A and find i also come withan MA they don't quite know what to do with it.

Still waiting for someone who is capable of appreciating it all...

alphamale · 17th November 2005, 9:25 AM

all of the females you've mentioned above would be good for sex but not for marriage.

lindya · 17th November 2005, 9:31 AM

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Originally Posted by loveheart59

I saw this poll the other day that said the most popular choice for marriage was jennifer Aniston (followed by Halle Berry) and the woman men would have an affair with was Angelina Jolie. How do guys make these choices?

Answer is probably as voiced by Brad Pitt in Fight Club....

"All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you want to look, I **** like you want to ****..."

cj_gal · 17th November 2005, 9:44 AM

what does a guy look for in a girlfriend?..I am totally lost..why does a guy want a girl that is gorgeous to have a fling with and marry someone that is plain to marry..Is it so that other guys won't look at his wife? I am sick of trying to figure this out..maybe I should just stop...guys are just too hard to figure out..