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Old 14th November 2005, 9:49 AM   #1
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Weekend Trip

I am going on a w/e trip interstate with two girls. Girl (A) intiaited the trip and is in LDR with another guy and I get along with her quite well. I like Girl (B) - not as comfortable (talking) with her (shy guy thing). Do girls normally ask a guy to come with them on a trip. Have I just been banished to the Just Friends Zone.

On this trip, I guess it will be an opportune time to get know Girl (B) better, and vice versa. We are staying in separate rooms . Girl (B) actually wanted that , so they can do their "girly stuff". What is that actually ? What would girls talk about? So I guess I'll spend time watching tv late at night. Guess that may be uncomfortable with a guy in the room as well.

Anyway, if things go well, I'll plan to make a move after the trip. Don't want it to get awkard during the trip (if I get rejected) when we are still forced to hang together. Any ideas of what moves I can make to the GF/BF zone. Any advice to get extra points during these trip.
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Old 14th November 2005, 10:00 AM   #2
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Before you go, make your expectations clear with Girl B. While it may be initially uncomfortable, the alternative is to get slammed into the Friend Zone purgatory, out of which there is little chance of escape.
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Old 14th November 2005, 10:17 AM   #3
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Don't think a w/e will make much of a difference or will it I can drop hints during the trip and I can scope out the success as well. Probably end up getting mixed signals making me all the more confused

The trip was organised as a friend thingy at first, so I won't go awkard so early on. I still want to go on the trip. I'll try to careful not to fall into purgatory.
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