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how many lser's have done this?
i think i have done it!
are there exceptions to thinking like me and then the opposite occurs....
yes yes i can't get over my girl but if you seen her you'd realise
mind is in a muddle of 100 directions of this at the moment, she doesn't have another man ( so i heard ) so... optimistic answers preferred as for some reason tonight i am somewhat relieved from my heartache... haven't slept for 3 days and i am drinking a bit but not that much... something happened in my brain tonight... maybe i moved on? ... maybe i received false hope... anyway i know that when i wake up tomorrow that i may feel terrible again so i'm enjoying this moment
some days i feel fine...but what really hits me( witch makes me realize im really not okay)...is when i first wake up...IT is the worst feeling to wake up to a heart ache if you know what im saying...
you say your feeling different...use that as a your source. Let that that you that each month, or even each week you will feel different( and if you feel worse...)...just let that tell you that your feelings will eventually change...each month will seem different to you..in a different hurtful way...i know but you could be moving on and thats good!
some days i feel fine...but what really hits me( witch makes me realize im really not okay)...is when i first wake up...IT is the worst feeling to wake up to a heart ache if you know what im saying...
you say your feeling different...use that as a your source. Let that that you that each month, or even each week you will feel different( and if you feel worse...)...just let that tell you that your feelings will eventually change...each month will seem different to you..in a different hurtful way...i know but you could be moving on and thats good!
god i really doubt that i am permanently ... say longer than tonight unless i have gained an amazing ability tonight from say a god or a goddess? i called my gf a goddess btw!
i hate the feeling of waking up and feeling dreadful... what a difference to waking up and putting your arms around your love and kissing them on the forehead and telling them how wonderful you feel! btw i have only ever done this with my ex... for me to do this again say with someone else... impossible!
so she said to you"go grab your self another girl"...ouch...
that was said to me" go date other people"..
we always want what we cant have..dont put her on a such a high pedistool..this is just how your feeling now...you dont know what life can bring you later if you dont let your self get through it...man its one of the hardest things in life( along with alot of other things)...how long were yall going out?
so she said to you"go grab your self another girl"...ouch...
that was said to me" go date other people"..
we always want what we cant have..dont put her on a such a high pedistool..this is just how your feeling now...you dont know what life can bring you later if you dont let your self get through it...man its one of the hardest things in life( along with alot of other things)...how long were yall going out?
exactly, this is a girl i fell in love with from day 1 or day 2, she was mad about me too, i can honestly say i couldn't have done better! friends said to me that night my god who are you with? we were going out 5 months, very intense serious affair right from the start, she thought that we got too serious too soon, but it was her fault as well... we were 50/50 , practically lived together, told each other we loved each other after a month... do you get the picture?
we are not kids in love... in our 30's ... nobody was desperate or looking for anyone
well i guess its different when your in your 30's, im 17 and was in love for 3 years...tell me how its different( not saying it isnt different..im just curious and it probally help me out..)..and were you ever in love as a kid( 16/17/18?) jw...
well dont try anything to win her back!, it will just push her away right?..
if she wants you trust me she will come and get cha, dont hold done to hope though, everytime i hold done to hope it just hits me in the god darn face
yes big difference when you are 31 and 33!!!!!!!!!!!!
everything changes, u talk about kids, you know there is only so much time left so you gotta think at least you're making the right decision... especially for women... biology!
i was never in love until i was 24... proper love that is!
yes a 9 years relationship
says i'm 33 , i have to be 100% sure but i know i can't be...who can? i have my little flaws about her but i know she's brilliant, nobody can be perfect!
this means i don't want you? obviously! we were talking about getting fertility checks the week before!
maybe has nothing to do with anything anyhow!
surely something can win your favorite girlfriend back! girls like being chased and wanted... not totally ignored!
yeah your right, but chasing her at this point...isnt something that will gain her back!..
how long were they broken up b4 she met you?..
and were you in a ltr at maybe 17? and thought you were in love for long timeeeeeee
a long time... its funny how 'love' transpires between 17 year olds and people who are 30's and 40's ... i'm not being patronising but this has nothing to do with it
no i didn't have a relationship until i was 24
i haven't chased her either, she walked out about 2 odd weeks ago and that was it
while i like the tenacity of the younger generation i'd like the older version too
yeah i was only asking some of those questions for my benifit with what im going through..its just as tuff...
well give it time, i know advice from a 17 year old isnt as helpful as some one who has experienced much more, but i think when it comes to love..age doesnt matter, pain is pain
yeah i was only asking some of those questions for my benifit with what im going through..its just as tuff...
well give it time, i know advice from a 17 year old isnt as helpful as some one who has experienced much more, but i think when it comes to love..age doesnt matter, pain is pain
i agree brittanyjean259, it all can be helpful, i like your input!
and perhaps you are correct but consider that as when you get older there are so many more variables that are and are not important... AND
the PAIN is worse when you're older! because more things are important and especially all the responsibilies you have when you are younger... i know exactly how i was told this too when i was younger! i thought you guys got no worries ... its us ... i hate to say this to you but i'd love to go back to your age! and especially the world is getting tougher
i guess it does get tougher, and maybe its good that im experiencing this now...i think maybe some people dont feel for other peopl until there older or more mature, but in my case that wasnt it!..
but ill take that advice," i still have my youth...and of course there is alot out there"...
how long did she wait to date you after her and your ex broke up
Although I agree with brittany that pain is pain regardless of the age...because the pain I felt after my lover became the ex who dumped me and I am in my 40's and he was younger 28...the intensity hit me bcause I was unabandoned in my love for him. I didn't hold back and wasn't on guard. I
had no reason not to open up to him and be myself because I am at a point
in my life where I wasn't and didn't need to play games. I wasn't expecting marriage but I did want his love back. And when he started to change his behavior towards me, becoming less and less kind and more hurtful it was inconceivable. I refused to see that the relationship was hurtful to me. He was immature underneathe and I still hung in there figuring love would change him back.
Of course I'd been in love before and had lost love, but the ultimate high feelings I had with him in the begiining and then the crushing blow of him breaking it off, I felt worse than anything I'd ever experienced in a breakup.
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