[Jeannie]

I grieved, I cried, I lost sleep, I wanted to call.......5 months of NC and building my ex up to be waaaaay better than he really was. I was so close to contacting him many times but listened to everyone on here and all I can say is THANK GOD!!!!

Today I discovered my ex on a matchmaking website. Has he been sitting around thinking about me? Hell no - he's on singleparentmeet.com with a really lame bio and all I can say is I'M OFFICIALLY OVER HIM!!!

How did I find his bio on this website? Some higher power led me right to it. I had a feeling he'd be on one of them - and I had prayed to God to give me a sign whether I should contact him or move on.

Believe it or not I think a higher power led me right to that website to find him because I've really been hurting alot lately and needed this to put it all behind me and move on.

If there ever was a prime example of the reasons you should stick to no contact - remember me. I almost called him, mailed him a card, etc. Something kept preventing me from doing that. I could have really screwed up. He's out trying to meet new women - he's moved on. Suddenly all those memories came crashing back down to reality.

He's still the desperate slimeball he always was - but now he's on to his next target. I feel sorry for any girl who falls for his crap - his bio was full of lies - he claims he's 5'10! I'm 5'8 and I'm a quarter of an inch taller than he is!

I don't want him back - YUK!!!!! What was I thinking????

[BrainRightHeartWrong]

Originally Posted by Jeannie

He's still the desperate slimeball he always was - but now he's on to his next target. I feel sorry for any girl who falls for his crap - his bio was full of lies - he claims he's 5'10! I'm 5'8 and I'm a quarter of an inch taller than he is!

I don't want him back - YUK!!!!! What was I thinking????

glad to hear you've moved on...

an ex of mine wasn't very nice to me and I wasn't even attracted to her

another was jealous, manipulative and tried to control me, she isn't a bad girl now but i don't know why i stood for it!

my recent ex is a lovely girl, wasn't jealous, didn't want money etc. she was special, i knew it at the time so she'll be really hard to get over, i can't say in say 6 months "god i'm glad i never ended with her"

lucky your ex was a slimeball! it helps!

[JosiePosie]

Ooohhh man....I know how that feels. It just over a week after I left our apartment and relationship because "he needed time to be alone", that he started logging into dating websites. Just last week we chatted a bit online. He went on how about he is sorry for putting me through this, that we were smothering each other, he understands if I don't want to talk to him, and that he hopes we can talk about it in the future. YEAH RIGHT!!!

After the conversation, I thought about it and emailed him. I told him that he has the right to date, but if that was the reason why he needed time alone, he should have told me rather than the little song and dance. I basically said that he contradicts himself (on other issues as well) and don't see us being friends anytime soon. I figured after he read my email, he would take me off his MSN contact list, I am still on there. Go figure.

Anyway, I went to my church-based support group tonight and came out truly inspired. There was one song during worship, the words basically go "he knows our story, he knows our song, and yet he still loves me". I am of another faith but always open to others, and hearing those words made me want to cry. God truly loves me, despite my past, my actions, how unloving I have been towards myself...he still loves me. I came home with a bursting heart.

"Looking for love in all the wrong places....."