my boyfriend is 4 years younger than me and very good looking. i'm no slouch myself, but when we go out, he has women almost literally throwing themselves at him. they even hit on him when i'm there! he's either totally oblivious or thinks its funny. here's my problem. he just started back to college and got a new job where he is expected to work late a lot because the business just opened. i am starting a new job soon as well, but in the meantime i've had nothing to do with my day but stay home and watch my son (no, i dont watch soap operas either)
he tells me he's not cheating, and if he is, he's being very careful (no phone numbers, lipstick stains etc.) we have an honest relationship (i think) and he's told me that he cheated on his last girlfriend with co-workers and when he was in school the first time. he assures me that he wont do the same to me and he is very supportive and caring in every other way. am i just being naive? am i paranoid because of his past history and what he's told me? are my "red flags" up for no reason? SOMETHING'S NOT RIGHT but i don't have any solid proof!
i need advice! if i confront him and i'm wrong, i look like a possesive fool. i can't follow him around everywhere, no do i want to! HELP!
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