I can't believe he left me for another woman

mooncloudprincess · 8th November 2005, 2:57 PM

This pain is unbelievable. How can he be so happy and just move on with someone new??? It hurts so bad. What am I supposed to do???

totallyconfused · 8th November 2005, 3:11 PM

how long were you with him for?

did you have any problems before all this happened in the past?

i know how you feel, i've been there before... its takes time. if it was really meant to be, they'll come back... mine did, but i didnt take him back :\

do absolutely NC for as long as you can. from your other post, he is only trying to maintain friendship with you for his own sake, b/c he wants his cake and eat it too. its really a selfish reason on the dumper's side b/c he wants to break up with you, but have the comfort knowing he can still talk/see you whenever they want to. dont let him get that satisfaction. stand your ground now or else he will continue thinking he can do whatever he wants..

MakeMeBeautiful · 8th November 2005, 4:58 PM

you should go out with your girl friends and start seeing a new guy. wes broke up with me in early sept to try to work things out with his ex. we didn't talk for a month. i started seeing someone else. he starts calling me again to reminisce about our time together. i have to admit i still love talking to him

mooncloudprincess · 8th November 2005, 5:20 PM

what he said in the end after i confronted him was "why can't you just go without the title and know that things won't change between us" i won't call him. i absolutely refuse. it just kills me to think that i waited 10 months watching his behavior and all before i agreed to commit to him and then a month after our one year anniversary he pulls this mess. He was like haven't you ever broken up with someone and gotten back together? I said hell no. for what. I hate it because I keep thinking he left me to run off and marry the shiny new girl after promising me the world. He said he saw his future with me. This really hurts. I didn't know he was this way. I swear he was awesome with me for a year.

mooncloudprincess · 8th November 2005, 5:24 PM

yeah...i'd love that. as it stands...he dumped me after i moved to a state FAR FAR AWAY from everyone i know and love. I am all alone here. I feel like i am dying and i know that they are probably soooo happy. i hope what they say about karma is true although i really don't believe it is. i never see it happen.

downcydeguy · 8th November 2005, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by mooncloudprincess

i hope what they say about karma is true although i really don't believe it is. i never see it happen.

Karma is a funny thing. It exists though, I think. In my lifetime, it always works very slowly. In due time, you will look back at this time of your life and realize that it's the reason you're where you are at that point - which will be a great place.

And you'll never know what will happen to him because he won't exist in your world anymore - so does it even matter?

Things happen for a reason. Sometimes the reason isn't revealed for a while.

totallyconfused · 9th November 2005, 2:24 AM

i have seen karma come back both at me and those that have hurt me (in about the same form of hurt) in less than 6 months time, maybe more than three times. pretty crazy huh? but then again im a religious nut and pleaded with God to help me/show the ones that have hurt me understand my pain...