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Old 2nd November 2005, 4:10 PM   #1
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Unhappy Second chance with no promises?!?!

Alright , after 4 months of not shaking the way my husband felt about leaving me.
HE finally said we will give it a try but he can make no promises. Does that mean he cares? DECODE IT PLEASE
read http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t73905/ for more info on my story.
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Old 2nd November 2005, 5:00 PM   #2
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HE finally said we will give it a try but he can make no promises.
Since when does anyone have any guarantees about anything?

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]i got burnt out and tiredddddd so my personality kind of changed i was aggressive rude and not the loving person he married
Seems to me that his idea of willing to try again without any guarantees goes right to this quote from your original post. And about the point about constantly talking to him regarding the relationship; by now he'd probably wish you'd just shuddup already.

Granted, he does seem to be giving you mixed messages, but I suppose that's no different than your self-admitted changes after you and he got married.

The other aspect about him working all the time is something that's very common. He's probably working all the time because he wants to make sure that you have a comfortable lifestyle. Go into any office building and ask any overweight middle-aged man why he's working himself into an early heart attack, and he'll give you a picture of his wife & kids and say something like, "I do this for them." It's no different in your case.

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Old 2nd November 2005, 9:47 PM   #3
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I JUST CANT-- stop talking about the relationship. He says he has noticed a change in me and hes very very happy about it but its too late he has no feelings for me. He sais he wished i would have been that way when he weas there for me. I told him that I will never be the person I was and he says he believes me.
He says everything will ne OK if i dont give him a hard time. Then he would say I dont want this and your forcing it. MIXED MESSAGES

I really dont know what to do!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

I dont want to loose him and i want himt o chnage his mind but he says hell chnage his mind when he feels it and this is the best he could dooooooooooo
but i want moreeeeeeeeeeee
i miss him so much!!!!!

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