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Originally Posted by dontwanttoloosehim
HE finally said we will give it a try but he can make no promises.
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Since when does anyone have any guarantees about anything?
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Originally Posted by original post
]i got burnt out and tiredddddd so my personality kind of changed i was aggressive rude and not the loving person he married
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Seems to me that his idea of willing to try again without any guarantees goes right to this quote from your original post. And about the point about constantly talking to him regarding the relationship; by now he'd probably wish you'd just shuddup already.
Granted, he does seem to be giving you mixed messages, but I suppose that's no different than your self-admitted changes after you and he got married.
The other aspect about him working all the time is something that's very common. He's probably working all the time because he wants to make sure that you have a comfortable lifestyle. Go into any office building and ask any overweight middle-aged man why he's working himself into an early heart attack, and he'll give you a picture of his wife & kids and say something like, "I do this for them." It's no different in your case.
yea, I'm grumpy today