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Old 2nd November 2005, 6:52 AM   #1
shyguy_2046
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This is new for me.I have this problem.
I stay in this town in the west coast and recently i travelled back to my home town. ( I moved last December ).
While here in my home town. I met this girl. actually, she is my mother's tennants daughter. We chatted and after a few visits i fell in love with her.
A few days ago I told her how i felt and she said nothing but smiled. That very night i told her parents. They said that their daughter likes me but will not tell her feelings.
Yesterday, i took her to the movies. I even bought her a artificial pink rose ( her best type of flower and colour ). After the movies she told me she liked me but can not get involved with me because both her boyfriends cheated on her and that she is not over her last boyfriend.They broke up 5 months ago.This is killing me.I love this girl and i would rather die than hurt her.
Please help me.Thank you so much.
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Old 4th November 2005, 3:45 AM   #2
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I went through the exact same thing. And I screwed up...I kind of pestered in a way and what I should of done was appreciated that she actually enjoyed my company. This is what you should do, spend as much time with her as you can, make her laugh and take her mind off of that ex boyfriend, then eventually shell get attacted to you...if she really does like you but is afraid to commit. Give Her Time...be her Best friend right now.
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