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Old 25th October 2005, 3:14 PM   #1
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Ive been with my boyfriend for five months. Be both love eachother to peices. I knew he hada past of cheating, and so do I... but ive stopped that, and i thought hed stopped that too... Ive never cheatyed on him, and i thought hed NEVER chaet on me. But i was worong... He was with a girl for a year or so a while ago, and her mother has just passed away. So I thought it was acceptable for him to go and see how she was getting on. They went for coffe for an hour, and then he went out with a "friend". Apparently hes cheated on me with his ex and another gil ( he was supposedly very drunk with the other girl). He didnt go as far as to sleep with either of them, but the whole thing has really upset me.He admits to the other girl, but he denys his ex. I dont know who to belive, our friend or him. Im supposed to be meeting up with him tomorow, but im not sure if i can get over it, or if i should break it off. Any suggestions?
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Old 4th November 2005, 10:30 PM   #2
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Add up th good things about the relationship for both of your, and see if it worthwhile to work to build trust and boundaries. Ever read any Cloud and Townsend?


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Old 5th November 2005, 12:04 AM   #3
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I vote dump him till he grows up.
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