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hi all i started talking to a girl at work and got a crush on her i am 19 and yesterday i found out shes 15 is that too young for me am i S.O.L. 4 years doesnt seem like a huge difference my dad is 59 and my mom is 52 so i dunno i'm not out looking for sex im just looking for a girl to stand by my side to care and love me and i will do the same for her
Last edited by steve_3327; 24th October 2005 at 3:30 PM..
hi all i started talking to a girl at work and got a crush on her i am 19 and yesterday i found out shes 15 is that too young for me am i S.O.L. 4 years doesnt seem like a huge difference my dad is 59 and my mom is 52 so i dunno
I am, if memory serves, in the minority of posters on this board in regards to this issues, but I personally think that the gap you are describing is not a big deal.
12 year old and 40 year old=big deal.
Other poster's will likely bring up the maturity difference, but often a 15 year old female is more mature than her 15 year old counterpart.
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i agree with the maturity difference. my friend ive known all my life he is 21 and he said dont date her because her parents and the cops will be showing up at your doorstep before you know it. im not the type of guy that just goes out looking to get laid but if u were me how would you think??
i agree with the maturity difference. my friend ive known all my life he is 21 and he said dont date her because her parents and the cops will be showing up at your doorstep before you know it. im not the type of guy that just goes out looking to get laid but if u were me how would you think??
You say you don't want to just get laid but lets be honest giving the opportunity and her saying yes you would be tapping that ass faster than you can even say cherry.
Do youself and favor and don't put something so tempting that #1) is illegal for you to have sex with #2) will bore you once you do turn 21 and can hit the bars and she is still in HS
You have no idea how her parents would react to you, and Tudor's right that she won't be able to do some of the things you'll want to, nightclubs, concerts, etc.
Don't compare 59 to 52. Uhmmm 19 and 15 is maturity level, life experience and hey, does she have boobs yet? She's still very young, even if she comes across "mature", she hasn't lived enough and experienced enough to be in an adult relationship. Sorry, it doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure that one out.
Be a friend to her, and maybe when she is older and if you're still interested, then pursue it.
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And possibly a new "boyfriend".
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