[9Lives]

I have a boyfriend and though we have good sex I dont think he is physically attracted to me. The reason I feel this way is because he doesnt touch me and doesnt really like to kiss me. He also is use to women bigger than myself. I am a small-medium woman. Today I sent him a email about it but he has not gotten it yet.

Anyway, am I tripping?

[Outcast]

Sounds like he's just a lousy lover.

[MakeMeBeautiful]

never sleep with a guy who doesn't appreciate your body. it doesn't matter if you are scrawny, fat, small-breasted, etc. a guy should make you feel like the most beautiful woman in his world. my last bf went nuts over my ass. he was the one who made me realize that i have a pretty nice ass. i always thought i had a flat ass. my new guy kisses every inch of my body. before he leaves he will pull the covers down and kiss my ass.

maybe you guys have been together for a while? sex does start to get mundane after you've been sleeping with the same person for a while.

you can do an experiment. when he walks into the bedroom, lay on your stomach in bed (like reading a book or a magazine or something). have on a short miniskirt (i wear a thin white one) with a g-string underneath. make sure your skirt is slightly up with your ass showing. see his reaction. he should want to jump your bones. i did this one day as my bf was doing a few things around the house. he walked by the room and saw me through the door. he did a double take.

you can do any variation of this. use your best asset. legs, breast, etc. for me i think it is my ass. i have small breasts but i still know how to find just the right tops to make my small grapes look like great cleavage.

[whichwayisup]

Why send an email? Talk to him face to face so you can LOOK in his eyes and see reaction, hear his voice...Doing it in an email gives him an out, he could say anything and you'll not know if he means it or not. Sorry, don't mean to put fears in your head. Talk to him anyway, email answered or not.