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Old 19th October 2005, 12:43 AM   #1
JennaJenna
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months... He's new to dating.. and I've had about 4 or 5 boyfriends... 2 being more serious. Anywayz, he always says he loves me and he wants to be with me but he can never make time for me. I mean, yes he's busy.. he has some really hard classes this year in school and has alot of homework every night.. he has a job, which i dont... and he pretty much does anything his parents tell him to.. and very often goes to his grandparents house to help them with things.. So he's broken plans with me 3 times because... well something came up... like his parents made him go to church or he slept in or whatever.. and whenver he does this he always apologizes right away and explains what happened. But bottom line... i think hanging out once a week is reasonable and he can't even do that.. Therefore... our realationship isn't going anywhere.. we aren't getting any closer... but i love him because he's a really good person... hes always happy.. never gets angry at me...is extremely honest... and he likes me more me! he's just like no other guy I've ever met. So what do I do? Go on barely seeing him... or leave him? Its really a lose lose situation... I may not find anyone else like him if i dump him... but i dont want things to stay the way they are either. Advice please!?
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