[Nikita20]

We broke up on August 19th. He contacted me on September 18th. It’s been 4 weeks since we last spoke and still no contact from him. I just can’t believe it. He was my soulmate and I don’t think that I’ll find anyone else like him. I know that he won’t find anyone like me either. I just can’t belive that he’s completely forgotten about me. If you want to read my original thread it is here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t72685/
(it is long so be patient)

I’ve been tempted to contact him about the theater tickets, just to test the waters. I’m NOT going to mention relationship, my feelings, etc. My intentions are to keep the conversation light. But I’ve been so scared to call him. I’m wondering if he is feeling scared to call me. I’m not contacting him in order to give him his space and time to think about things. I’m just wondering if he is waiting to hear back from me.

I just know these things can be worked out. If you had a good relationship, isn’t it worth the effort to make amends? I just can fathom just throwing this away. Any comments?

[JohnJohn]

Originally Posted by Nikita20

He was my soulmate and I don’t think that I’ll find anyone else like him. I know that he won’t find anyone like me either.
I’ve been tempted to contact him about the theater tickets, just to test the waters.

If you feel he is your soulmate, contact him and get it over with. Be prepared though as you might hear something you don't expect. Tread softly. The longer you wait the more likely he (if not so already) has moved on. I hope it works out for the best. If not, don't believe that you will never find anyone else like him. You will in time. It's hard to see that now but you will. Good luck.

[Nikita20]

Damn...I'm just so scared. I just don't know what to say. Plus, I don't know if I'm making a huge mistake. I just wish that he would call. That would make things a bit easier. I'm going to give it another week, then perhaps I'll take the plunge. Wish me luck.

[smile95]

if he is your soul mate, he will call you. No matter how much time passes, soul mates do not "forget" about you.

[JohnJohn]

Originally Posted by beth5201

soul mates do not "forget" about you.

True. Unlike some people we know

[Nikita20]

A girlfriend of mine mentioned that if I love him, I should bite the bullet and call him. She said that he was probably scared s***less to call in the first place and is afraid to call me again. When he called I was pleasant, but, didn't show much emotion at all. In fact I was very strong. She said that men have a much harder time dealing with rejection than women do. Is that true? Also when a man dumps the love of his life and regrets it, what is the likelihood of his fear of rejection getting in the way of trying to make amends? Because if that is true, what a waste of the possibility of having the love of your life back in your arms. Arrrgh!! This is so confusing!!

[smile95]

why did you break up to begin with?

[Nikita20]

Read this...it is a bit long...

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t72685/

[Nikita20]

Anyone else have some input?