[Forget About Her]

I've been seeing this great girl for about 4.5 months. We are both work full time, and take a few classes at university. We both have our own places and are working on getting established in life. (I'm 23, she's 19)

At first it was great. We dated a lot, went out on the motorcycle, dinners, etc. The sex has been unbelievable, with the exception of the occasional pre-mature finish on my part. She spends the night at my house 3-4 nights per week, has a toothbrush at my place, etc. I like her a lot, but i'm noticing some differences now.

I'm starting to find myself less physically attracted to her. Don't get me wrong, she is a very cute girl, is not overweight or anything like that, but she's just really not physically the type of girl I usually go for. I've been having more episodes of some 'pre-mature release' lately, and accompany that with the fact I don't find her all that physically intriguing, I haven't been as excited to have sex with her over the past couple of weeks. She loves it and wants it all the time, and I just find myself just wanting to 'chill' with her rather than have sex.

I really like her, and i love her personality and don't want to break up with her, but is there anything I can do? Does anyone have any input on this at all?

[Pristineuk]

I experienced a similar problem with my ex girlfriend as well but my problem was...i could'nt finish full stop and it was the most frustrating feeling in the world!!

I loved her but no matter what i tried i couldnt enjoy the sex enough for me to finish. The girl i was with was absolutely stunning and would do anything for me, underwear, toys, home videos, pictures etc etc

She used to cry and cry because she felt she couldnt satisfy me, but it really was'nt her...i really was attracted to her in a big way but it just wouldnt happen. It got to a stage where i just wanted to "chill" with her as well because i knew if we had sex the same would happen again. I think the fact that she couldnt finish through sex was a problem for me in my subconcious but im at a loss to explain why it was happening