[Geminigyrl_2003]

My friend used to live in tha same town me and her ex live in today until she moved back to her home state up North. This summer she came home and stayed with her aunt and sumtimes stayed at my house and we kicked it. She's never had a boyfriend so i hooked her up with this guy. This guy has been tryna talk to me for years now but i really didn pay him any mind and i was busy with my bf or what not. She's back home now and they hardly talk. He and I have started talkin and have been havin funs and smiles every since. We hang together at school all day and people walk around sayin how kute we r together but we tell them we're just friends. We're already in love but we have to tell her. He wants to take our friendship into a real relationship and he even wants to marry me since i'm going in the military when i graduate. I'm afraid of what her reaction will be. I want him but i dont wonna lose her friendship. She's way up there and i'm here with him so i figure might as well. I'm confused. What should i do?

[Zaira]

Tell her the truth. Don't go behind her back.

[sulty]

Just Tell Her.

[Geminigyrl_2003]

Say when i tell her and she happens to get upset, and doesn't approve of us going out. Do you think we should cut it off or continue because of her location, she really has no control of what goes on between us. Or is it just tha fact that she just needs to know and not have a say so about what we should do? Yoiu know it's known to ask your friends if you can go with their ex's and get approval but this situation is kinda diff.

[augur]

She may very well get upset, Gemini - but I think she would
be more so if you did not tell her and she found out some other
way.