[Mr_X]

Hello, I hope I'm not presuming too much by making use of this board.

I'm male, 25 and I'm having some difficulties in my intimate (i.e. sex) life with my girlfriend.

Our sexlife is at a complete halt, and I'm unable to initiate any further activity.

We've been dating for a year and a half, and in that time she has been very accessable and fun, and one day she simply stopped wanting to proceed. Not to say that we don't have sex, but it's gone from 3-4 times a week to once a week or less now.

She has had some bad relationships where sex was a priority, and I have been very respectful of that, by not being forceful with her in the same way.

I cannot do anything outside of pleasuring her, and only how she wants it. I also cannot ask for anything unusual or specific (oral sex, for example), because she seems to be against the more involved and potentially "dirty" sides to sex. she also seems to be disinterested in pleasuring me.

She refuses me whenever I'm worked up and says that I should keep trying until she's "In the Mood" some other night.

I do hope that it is enough information to solve the problem, I would greatly appreciate some input.

Thanks!

-Joh...er...mr.X.