[Vikingfan]

My mom helps her friend out at the bar doing kareoke one night a week with her. Her and my dad are having problems. Everytime I go out she is dancing with guys my age!! She like grindes on my ex bf and she even did it when we were dating. Last night she was dancing with this guy I told her I thought was hot. Like right after I told her she went over and started dancin with him. I dont know what to do cuz I told her before that it bothers me and it should right....i mean whos mom does that!!! I was so mad last night. what should I do? Im actually afraid shes going to get with a guy I want!!

[Toni_no12002]

Maybe she wants to feel young!If it bothers you alot i think you should talk to her.Otherwise it will probaly carry on.The only reason i can think of is that she wants to feel cool.In with you you.It may sound stupid but she might be feeling low .try talking to her!

[Lizzard]

Okay honey, you said your mom and dad are having problems.
One reason she does this.
It's attention.
I know, how weird, yucky or creepy. Your momma is still human. So she is older and she can still shake it...hell most moms wouldn't even know what kareoke is! LOL
Your mom seems to be going through a tough time, talk to her! Tell her-" Mom, this is making me feel weird. What are you doing?" She is your mom, you can tell her anything.
Just because she is your mom doesnt mean she isn't human. She still likes attention, or dancing with younger hot guys.
Just talk to her...tell her what you feel.
Communication. Communication.
Good luck!

[loony]

Originally Posted by Vikingfan

She like grindes on my ex bf and she even did it when we were dating.

Ask her what she would think if you did the same with her friends. I wonder if she would then continue to behave like this. Even though, I guess, a woman who behaves as shameless as this won't bother what her daughter does.

Last night she was dancing with this guy I told her I thought was hot. Like right after I told her she went over and started dancin with him.

Great mom...

i mean whos mom does that!!!

Mine certainly doesn't.

I doubt that it has anything to do with her and your dad having problems. I rather guess, they have problems because she's like this. Are there any family members with whom you could talk about this?

[lindya]

Originally Posted by Vikingfan

My mom helps her friend out at the bar doing kareoke one night a week with her. Her and my dad are having problems. Everytime I go out she is dancing with guys my age!! She like grindes on my ex bf and she even did it when we were dating. Last night she was dancing with this guy I told her I thought was hot. Like right after I told her she went over and started dancin with him. I dont know what to do cuz I told her before that it bothers me and it should right....i mean whos mom does that!!! I was so mad last night. what should I do? Im actually afraid shes going to get with a guy I want!!

I'm wondering what the circumstances that lead to you and her socialising in the same bar. Are there no other places you and your friends could go to, so that you're not hanging out with her? It's a great pity that she's behaving like this, but she's not going to stop just because you and the members of Loveshack don't like it. If this is the person she's set on being, then you somehow need to work around it and find ways of preventing it from encroaching into your life too much.

Perhaps you need to re-arrange your social life a bit, to ensure that she's less involved in it.

[blue16]

lol I didn't know moms liked to grind...I thought they were too old school

[CarmenIbanez]

Originally Posted by blue16

lol I didn't know moms liked to grind...I thought they were too old school

OUCH OUCH OUCH!

[scobro]

I'm in love with Stacey's mom.

[Vikingfan]

haha you guys are funny Well I went there one night awhile ago because she asked me to come so I did because I didnt have anything else to really do. I try not to go so much but alot of my friends like to go there the night she is there because it actually is alot of fun. I talked to her about everything and she was just like "OH JESUS KRISTEN GET OVER IT" I basically just told her that if she wants to get attention by dancing with guys my age do it with ones that I dont like and that it doesnt make her any cooler it makes her look stupid. I figure she is doing it to fit in considering she does it witht he guys I like or have dated. ew grose grose grose!!!!
anyways thats for the replies!!!